Church Ought to be

1 John 4:11 NIV
Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.

EKKLESIA,  called out ones of God

Ephesians 2:19 NIV
Consequently, you are no longer foreigners and strangers, but fellow citizens with God’s people and also members of his household,

Jesus inner circle. Peter James and John
Who see Jesus transfiguration.

John 13:34 NIV
“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.

Why difficult to share
1.  felt vulnerable and afraid being judges.
, issues for . gossip
,  unless  trust is established not judge.
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Romans 14:13 NIV
Therefore let us stop passing judgment on one another. Instead, make up your mind not to put any stumbling block or obstacle in the way of a brother or sister.

2.  cannot believe that other could possibility love us
,  low self. Esteem
,  inner self projected to outer self

Romans 12:16 NIV
Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited.

3,  hurt by other and can't overcome. The bitterness
,  hardest  to deal. With Christian
,  test of Christian is not I'm church but she. You are out there
,  brokenness. dentedness.
,  let God heal you
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Colossians 3:13 NIV
Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.